In a world where we are constantly bombarded with negative messages, it is vitally important for women to know who they are and intrinsically understand their worth. There is a fallacy being perpetuated that when someone exhibits a certain level of confidence they’re being arrogant.
It never ceases to amaze me that those who propagate this myth are themselves insecure. When insecurity meets confidence it labels it cockiness. If you ever encounter this just give them your best smile and continue to do you. Confidence never answers to ignorance.
If you don’t value yourself, you will teach people to do the same; to devalue you. Carry yourself in a way where they have to respect you even if they don’t like you. You are royalty! Even if your current life situation is unfavorable, it cannot negate your value. It is not material things that give you value, your value comes from knowing who you are and why you’re here.
You are a uniquely created being who was put on earth for a special purpose that you alone can fulfill. You will never compare yourself to anyone when you understand that. You are designed for purpose and your purpose was designed for you. No one can take your place or occupy your space in this world. You’re an original – a Masterpiece.
If you don’t understand your uniqueness and value you will always be a victim of other people’s opinions. There are certain things I like to say to myself when I wake up in the mornings. I look at myself in the mirror and say, “You’re a God-child. You’re in the God-class. You’re classy Baby!”
I base my worth in my relationship with my Superior Source; God. I am Him, He is me. He is perfect, therefore I am perfect. My worth comes from He who lives within me and that’s solid. Unshakable. I give things value, things don’t give me value.
As I close my narrative I encourage you, never give away your personal power to anyone. Know yourself to know your worth and be strong and courageous.